Keeping in touch with people has never really been a strong suit of mine. I have typically relied on people to reach out to me to catch and be apart of each others lives, even if we weren’t physically apart of each other’s lives. Today I’m sharing 5 ways I keep in touch with friends post college (undergrad and now grad!). Now more than ever, it’s important that I work to maintain the friendships I have, while beginning new relationships.
1. Pick up the phone!
As a Millenial, I know how much my generation texts people over calling them. Giving someone a phone call is so rare, which makes it such a valuable conversation! I commute an hour+ each way to work, and on the way home, I have a list of people I rotate through calling. Sometimes I have to just leave a voicemail, but 9 times out of 10 my friend calls me back at another time. It helps me feel so connected to those I am closest to, but not able to be near or spend time with regularly.
2. Comment on Social Media
Our lives are consumed by social media these days. I love seeing the places people are visiting or the activities they are doing. Commenting on their posts or their stories is a fun way to learn about what’s going on in the moment. Your conversation is housed in one place a long with the photo that started it all!
3. Pick two people a day to text
I reach out to two people every day for how I can pray for them. Praying for people can be so intimate, and it has allowed me to get close to some of those phone contacts that sometimes get lost in the shuffle. It has been a great way for me to keep up with and keep in touch with sorority sisters, and friends from organizations.
4. Take a 3 day weekend
As a new employee, I know people are cautious about the time they take off work or if they take any. Then how much will a vacation cost them. I have friends that live all over the US now. And as hard as it is because I don’t see them as often as I want, we can make time to invest in our friendships. I can go to some pretty great places, and have free housing, there are some pretty great ways to find cheap flights. Or if you can split the difference, drive and meet each other half way and split the cost of a hotel room.
5. Send Snail Mail
I know, I know, I already talked about the old fashioned art of phone called and now I’m moving on to the antiquated art of writing a letter. When was the last letter you received? How did it make you feel? It’s so easy to make someone else feel the same way! Go to Target, and buy your self some cute stationary. Sit down on Sunday night and write to people who have birthdays or anniversaries that week!